Category Archives: Venting

Flight Times

I used to love traveling. I won’t lie and say I adored the airport or being on a plane, but those parts were never problematic. Of course, things got tougher after Scarlett was born. We used to fly, just the two of us, to visit my family in Chicago, and we had some dicey moments in planes. She would scream, I would sweat, other passengers would wave their iPhones in her face, and we would end up hiding in the back of the plane by the bathrooms until she calmed down.

But it was never enough to deter me from our trips together. I really enjoyed being able to travel with her, and for the most part, she was well behaved and received compliments at the end of each flight from relieved passengers who had at first eyed her with suspicion.

In the spring of 2012, I was having a lot of trouble with my feet, and I knew ALS was a possibility, but I hadn’t yet been diagnosed. Scarlett had just turned two, and she and I were flying back to San Francisco after a visit with my parents. Read More>

Adventures at the DMV

I love my disabled parking placard. Of course I wish I didn’t need it, but I’m realistic. It makes my life much easier. Never mind the accessible handicap spots. Did you know you don’t EVER have to pay a meter if you have one of these magical plastic things?

Contain your envy.

But it wasn’t as easy as I thought it would be to obtain my new blue friend, and that is because the DMV was involved.

I assume that nearly everyone reading this has been to the DMV at some point, and I also assume that exactly none of you enjoyed it. This is not a slam on anyone who works at the DMV. It’s just not a very enjoyable place. Read More>

On Doctors

I recently went to two starkly different doctors offices. The first was my regular ALS clinic here in San Francisco, where I saw myriad specialists, who poked at me and tested things like my breathing and my patience. I got a mostly good report, along with prescriptions for a new wheelchair and braces to wear during the day that will keep my ankles from turning in and looking like they’re broken, which is sort of a horrifying way for them to look. They don’t hurt. Rob was told that he has to massage my feet twice a day, and I have no idea how we’re going to fit that into our busy morning of trying to encourage Scarlett to put clothes on her body and maybe even eat food before she goes off to summer camp. In fact, I’m 100% sure there will be no morning foot massages. So maybe we’ll just aim for once a day. Read More>