When Rob and I lived in New York, I walked to work. It took me about 20 minutes to get to my job at a Manhattan publishing house, something that sounds so glamorous when you write it, and actually was occasionally that way. Picturing myself walking across town on 23rd Street in heels is like recalling a movie I’ve watched over and over again (something besides Wayne’s World.) Could that have been me?

I would likely have these disconnected feelings about that time even if I didn’t have ALS. After all, so much has changed. We moved to California, I worked from home in yoga pants and had a baby. I started hanging out at playgrounds and speaking knowledgeably—even passionately!—about Music Together and tumbling classes. Heel wearing had declined considerably long before I started tripping over my own feet.

But back when I first moved to New York, it was November 2005, and the staff at my company was working on a book due to launch the following year. Read More>