I’ve lost another friend to ALS. Jodi Oliver was diagnosed in May 2013, at 44 years old. She died last week, on April 2, 2015. It was just two weeks after our friend Trickett Wendler died, and so it has been a particularly rough time in my ALS life.

Jodi was another mom from my Facebook group. You’d think there were a lot of us, based on the writing I’ve done about the group, but there were only five original members. Now there are two left. Two. I’ve equated it to a squadron of soldiers, but really it’s not. We didn’t enlist, and no one ever tells us that there’s a chance we will get out alive, go home, start over.

But if we were a Band of Sisters, then Jodi was our Sunshine Girl. She lived in Orange County, California, had a golden smile to match her hair, and loved sunflowers. After her diagnosis, she befriended a producer for the movie You’re Not You, about a young woman with ALS, played by Hilary Swank. When the producer, Alison Greenspan, invited her to a premier, Jodi was so excited. “I will probably have security surrounding me cause I tweet constantly,” she told our group. Read More>